Want to know how to get a girl to notice you whilst flying under the radar of all her other friends?
How do you make yourself stand out from all the other men out there, and put yourself in a good postion for a girl to be like “oh yeah, he’s cute, I like him”.
I know this one is a bit tricky, but when there’s a will, there’s a way!
Let’s start with the cliche and obvious things
Be the friendly guy
The first and most obvious thing to do, that a lot of men forget, is to smile. Yes, smile! Women are always attracted to the surly bad boys, but even the bad boys smile when it suits them. It might be a cheeky smile but it does work, try it.
Why do you need to smile?
It helps you come across as sociable and interested in her, even if your appearance in every other way makes you seem to be a bad boy.
Be the bad boy
Now in order for you to fly under the radar, you have to make her and her friends feel that you’re treating them ALL the same. But at the same time you want to get her to be attracted to you. So how do you do this? Make sure you come across as the bad boy that teases and makes fun of ALL her friends. But you need to direct most of your jokes and pranks at the expense of her, but occasionally on her friends. This way you spread out your attention and it seems as if you’re just that guy who makes fun of ALL the girls. A good way to do this is give them a personal nickname that sounds funny and lame like “oh you know what, I’m going to call you MARTHA, your friends canned all be called MARTHA’s MATES” then refer to her as “Martha” but her friends as “Martha’s mates 1″ and “Martha’s mates 2″.
Be the social guy
Being a sociable person is always a good thing too. If she sees you out with your friends having a good time, she will know that you’re liked by other people. You get to enjoy life and have fun, and show her that you’re trusted by others as well. It’s a win-win situation! People want to be around you, and you must be a lot of fun!
If you are seen out and about with women, other women will want to join in. They will think ‘there must be something fun about this guy because other women want to be around him’. You must be able to communicate if you’re going to try this though, because talking is very important to women and you have to be able to pay attention!
The funny thing is that you don’t always have to be physically around women for this to work. I have a friend who unfortunately got divorced and took his wedding ring off. The silly thing was that when he was wearing the ring he got a lot of attention from women, but when he took it off the attention dwindled.
The point that I want to stress here is that in order to go under the radar, you have to be cool around everyone. This includes other men. I see a lot of guys who only talk to women, but totally ignore the fact that there are other guys. If you alienate the men around her, then they are going to see you as a dick and will not help you get her – even if they don’t like her.
But if you’re a cool dude, then EVERYONE likes you, and her friends will be no exception. Her male friends who are not interested in her will often become your best wingman and this will help you stay unnoticed.
Be the funny guy
One more important thing to keep in mind is that you need to make them laugh. You don’t have to be a stand up comedian with a stash of jokes, and you don’t have to behave like the class clown. That can be very unattractive and make you lose points. But if you can make a girl laugh you have got a big advantage. Just go with the flow and if something funny comes into your head, make the most of it!. Most women really enjoy a guy with a sense of humour. Don’t worry or stress too much if you don’t think you can be funny. I thought I could not tell a joke to save myself, but then I realised that everyone has a funny streak. Some people are witty, some have a strange sense of humour, some are good at spotting situational funny things, and so on. Find out what you are good at and stick to it!
If you want to know how tog et a girl to notice you under the radar, then you have to mix your personality up and display attributes of all the characters I mentioned. If you do that then naturally you’ll be the guy that everyone likes, INCLUDING the girls so you’ll effortless get the attention of girls without needing to try very hard.
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